Pink is my favorite color & I am a romantic at-heart. Suffice it to say that I
love Valentine's Day.
It also helps that I have had a significant other or a date for 7 of the last 8 Valentine's Days.
This year marks my 2nd Valentine's with Nate. Last year was special since Nate drove from Butte to Helena just to have dinner with me. I was working on an audit out of town and he didn't want to spend it apart. We both worked for the same company and didn't want anyone to know, so I kept things pretty vague on my blog.
Here are the photos from our date last year.
This year was different. Neither one of us worked for that company anymore and we could also be open about our relationship and not have to sneak around at restaurants.
We tried to go to dinner at Sparky's, the Montana Club, and MacKenzie River Pizza, but the parking lots were packed. We didn't even attempt waiting. Rather, we pulled into McDonald's to find no one there. I ordered a 3-course meal: french fries, crispy chicken snack wrap, and a strawberry sundae for dessert. We then drove to Taco Johns, where Nate ordered his meal.
We picnicked on my floor (since my dining table was covered in clutter). I gave Nate some presents, including some Griz basketball shorts, a framed photograph of us for his office, and a deck of cards with "52 Reasons Why I Love You." It was a rather sweet night and I had accepted that that's all it would be.
Nate is not the most romantic guy, but I certainly underestimate him at times. He joked about not getting me anything and there were no flowers or chocolates during any part of the day. The night prior, I told him how excited I was. He said, "What for?" I replied irritated, "VALENTINE'S DAY!"
Sometimes Nate jokes about being clueless, and then there are times when he's just clueless.
After he opened his presents, he told me he felt badly about not getting me anything. I was really contemplating our relationship at that moment. If he couldn't do anything to show me his feelings on Valentine's Day, what would it be like 20 years from now when we're married and comfortable behavior has really set in?!
He felt awful and gave me a hug. Then he said, "Reach in that pocket." (The breast pocket in his coat.)
I felt a small box! A jewelry box! He knows how much I love and adore jewelry.
He fooled me! I was shocked, happy, and felt like a royal idiot for having no faith in him whatsoever.
I opened the box to find these beauties:
Pink sapphires with diamond accents set in 14 karat white gold. Nate specifically asked the jeweler for something pink and sparkly with a silver metal. (He learned early on that I prefer white to yellow gold.)
My night quickly turned from disappointment to complete and utter joy! It wasn't because my love was bought with a nice gift, but because he knew me well enough to know what I like and that this is the language that makes me feel special. It wasn't about the item, but the thought and meaning behind it.
And diamonds always help. This girl loves diamonds.